A California protective order (sometimes called a “restraining order”) is a legal document that can be used to help protect victims from harassment or abuse from a specific individual.
This order is one of the most helpful ways of protecting victims of domestic violence from future harm. Unfortunately, it can also be misused, and employed as a tool during divorce, in order to gain the upper hand in a custody battle.
If you feel that you’ve been unfairly issued with a protection order, try not to panic. As an accused, you have rights too, and will have the opportunity to present your side of the story to a judge, before the terms become permanent.
To help you prepare for your hearing, here’s what you need to know about protective orders in California, and what the Maples team can do to help you navigate these serious allegations.
What is a Protective Order?
First off, what is a protective order, exactly, and how does it work in California?
A protective order is a legal document that is designed to protect a specific individual (or individuals) from specific types of harm, from a specific individual. These orders are signed by a judge, and can be used to either prevent or require certain behavior from a specific individual. (For example, to prevent a perpetrator from coming within 100 yards of a certain person, or require them to move out of the family home.)
Obviously, this document isn’t exactly body armor—and thus, cannot physically shield a person from future domestic violence. However, what a protective order does do, is attach some fairly hefty legal and financial consequences for any violation.
This then, has the dual effect of both deterring would-be abusers from committing future crimes, and enabling law enforcement to take swift, harsh action in the immediate aftermath, if one does take place.
Not the Same Thing as a Civil Restraining Order
While similar in function and name, we should point out that a protective order is not technically the same thing as a restraining order.
This is confusing, we know (especially since Hollywood is always calling it the wrong thing), however, a criminal protective order and civil restraining order are two different things.
Unlike a protective order—which is used exclusively to protect individuals from harassment and violent crimes—civil restraining orders have a much broader scope. In fact, these orders are often issued to keep spouses from retaliating against each other during divorce, and to maintain the status quo until a case can be settled.
In this context, a restraining order might be used to protect assets, limit account withdrawals, prohibit the sale of the family home, keep a parent from moving their child out of state, address debt, require spousal support, or even enforce a temporary child custody arrangement.
Types of Protective Order in California
In California, there are actually three different types of protective order: emergency, temporary, and permanent. Each of these is a kind of “level,” and will lead directly into the next one, if not taken seriously.
Here’s a closer look.
1. Emergency Protective Order
Judges and law enforcement are the only ones who can request an EPO—victims, themselves, cannot. When issued, these orders become effective, immediately, and are set to last seven days.
Emergency protective orders are typically issued in the immediate aftermath of an altercation; typically when it’s obvious that some kind of physical harm, sexual assault, or abuse has taken place, and that more harm could follow.
This type of order acts like a Band-Aid; it offers swift, immediate protection to potential victims, and gives them a week to file a temporary protective order on their own behalf, if more time is needed.
2. Temporary Protective Order
A temporary protective order is similar to an emergency protective order, in that a judge can issue one, without an accused being present.
However, victims must request this order themselves, and it will only be granted if they can convince a judge that an immediate threat actually exists. Furthermore, the order will only last between twenty and twenty-five days, before it expires.
If an accuser wants the protections to last longer, they must schedule a hearing for a permanent protective order (usually within that twenty to twenty-five day period), and notify the accused via proper service.
3. Permanent Protective Order
A permanent protective order can only be issued after a formal hearing has taken place—a hearing that, by law, an accused has the right to be present at. Notification of this hearing must be issued via proper service.
At this hearing, both sides will have the opportunity to present evidence, and to tell their side of the story. After reviewing all of the information, a judge will decide whether or not to issue a permanent protection order, or to dismiss the request, entirely.
While its name may imply “forever,” permanent orders actually only last five years, and must be renewed at another hearing, if longer protection is needed.
Someone Filed a Protection Order Against Me… Now What?
Allegations of harm and abuse are incredibly serious, and are not taken lightly by California courts. If ignored, a temporary protective order can get serious, fast, quickly morphing into a permanent protection order that can have a lasting impact on your life. Influencing things like child custody, your divorce, and even your permanent criminal record.
Hence, if someone has filed a protection order against you, don’t wait. Act immediately, by following these four steps:
Comply With Your Order. Whether or not you think you’re innocent, you will gain nothing by ignoring a protective order. Remember, compliance is not an indication of guilt, and you will have the opportunity to set the record straight at your hearing.
Hire Representation. Domestic violence allegations are nothing to sneeze about. If you’ve been served with a protective order, you’ll want an experienced attorney fighting for your rights during this process—especially if the person blaming you has already done the same.
Surrender All Firearms. In California, you are not allowed to own or possess guns, firearms, or even ammunition, when there is an active protective order against you. If you already have one, then you’ll need to sell it, store it with a licensed dealer, or turn it over to law enforcement, immediately.
Attend Your Hearing. It’s vitally important that you attend your hearing, and prepare for it with the utmost gravitas. Failure to attend won’t stop the proceedings, if you’ve been properly served. Instead, your judge will simply enter a default judgment against you, in your absence—an outcome that’s far worse than the effort it will take to properly defend yourself.
Do You Need Help Responding to a California Protective Order?
Protective orders are a serious matter, and should not be taken lightly, even if you believe you are innocent. An experienced attorney can help you focus your efforts where you need to, collect the evidence you need, and fight tirelessly for your rights.
If someone has filed a protection order against you—and you have questions about what to do next—we want to hear from you. Call the Maples Family Law team today, at (209) 910-9865, or contact us online, and let us help fight for your rights in these important matters.
Divorce is never easy, but for families struggling with domestic violence, the transition can be even more complicated—especially for those who have children, need to file a restraining order, or are worried about retaliation.
Each state has different laws for handling domestic violence during divorce. In some jurisdictions, these offenses can warrant the filing of a fault-based divorce, and end up affecting the division of marital property in favor of the abused spouse. They can also impact child custody, alimony, and even result in criminal charges.
Here’s what you need to know about how domestic violence can impact your divorce in California, and what the Maples Family Law team can do to help you navigate this rocky transition.
Overview of Domestic Violence
In California, domestic violence is defined as any abuse—or threat of abuse—that comes from a romantic partner.
Naturally, this definition includes a spouse, but it actually goes further, encompassing any type of romantic relationship, such as someone you’re living with, a domestic partner, a co-parent you share a child with, and even just someone you’re dating (or used to date).
Under this definition, abuse can come in many different forms, and—according to the domestic violence guidelines on the California.gov website—can include things such as:
The act of physically hurting (or trying to hurt) someone, either intentionally or unintentionally;
Making someone think that they (or someone they love) is going to be hurt;
Sexual assault;
Harassment, stalking, threats, and disturbing the peace; and even,
The destruction of personal property.
As you can see, this type of abuse does not require physical contact with another person—or even their property—in order to be considered domestic violence. It can be as subtle as emotional abuse and threats levied against someone you love, and can even include unintentional physical harm.
But, what does this mean when filing for divorce?
Here are some of the ways that domestic violence can impact your divorce, including the division of marital property, child custody, and alimony.
Domestic Violence and Marital Property
At its most basic form, marriage is just a contract; a commitment between two people, who want to be seen as a single entity in the eyes of the law. That’s why several states allow individuals to file for divorce under fault-based grounds.
In a fault-based divorce, the court can assign blame, and hold one spouse financially accountable for their part in the marriage breakup. This is typically done by awarding the victim a larger share of the marital property.
Along with things like infidelity and drug abuse, domestic violence is one of the primary grounds used in these jurisdictions for filing under fault. That being said, California is not one of those states.
As a strictly, no-fault divorce jurisdiction, you cannot file for divorce in California using domestic violence as your grounds. In addition—because judges cannot consider guilt or blame when dividing marital property—you also cannot use domestic violence to receive a greater share of your community pot.
However, that doesn’t mean domestic violence can’t impact your divorce at all…
Domestic Violence and Child Custody
One of the biggest ways domestic violence can shape a California divorce, is in the area of child custody.
In California, custody decisions are made based on what is in a child’s best interest. This legal standard is driven—not by what parents want—but by what will serve a child’s long-term health and welfare the best.
Under these guidelines, sole versus joint custody decisions are determined by weighing factors such as:
Each parent’s ability to care for their child, post-divorce.
Any history or threat of domestic violence.
Any history of drug abuse.
When considering domestic violence, it is not even necessary that the child has experienced the abuse themselves. In California, domestic violence is still a consideration, even if the harm was only ever carried out on the child’s other parent.
Domestic Violence and Alimony
According to the California Family Code, courts are also required to consider domestic violence when making decisions about alimony.
Alimony (or “spousal support”) are regular payments that a judge orders one spouse to pay the other, in order to help support their care after the breakup. This money is often awarded to a homemaking spouse, to help get them back on their feet after so many years out of the workforce.
In California, judges cannot require victims of domestic abuse to pay their spouse alimony, however, this is somewhat contingent on what evidence is available at the time of divorce.
A conviction of domestic violence within the past five years is the strongest type of evidence. If available, this creates a “rebuttable presumption,” which essentially means that the court has to operate as if the abuse exists/existed. As a result, a victim of this violence cannot require to:
Pay temporary or permanent spousal support; or,
Pay their spouse’s attorney’s fees from separate property.
If you don’t have a conviction, you may still be able to get an exemption from alimony. Talk to your attorney about what evidence you may need, and be sure to document any further abuse in as much detail as possible, since the state may want to file criminal charges, as well.
Domestic Violence and Criminal Charges
Domestic violence might have been the reason you decided to file for divorce, but it’s also a crime, and—depending on the severity of the offenses and the available evidence—these actions could be enough to land your spouse with criminal charges.
But what, exactly, does that mean? And how does a criminal charge differ from what you’re doing in divorce court?
Civil vs. Criminal Court
In the United States, there are two main branches of the court system:
Civil court
Criminal court
Criminal court deals with offenses like rape, theft, battery, assault, and so forth. These are harmful crimes committed by one person against another, and can result in fines and even jail time. In a criminal case, the state acts as the prosecutor against the accused.
On the other hand, a civil case is filed by an individual (or business) against another individual (or business). This branch handles pretty much everything that criminal court does not, including real estate transactions, business, contracts, probate, economics, family law, and so forth.
Divorce—like adoption and child custody—is a subset of family law, which means that these cases are generally held in civil court. However, when domestic violence is involved, civil and criminal courts often intersect.
Depending on your situation, the state of California might decide to file criminal charges against your spouse for domestic violence. If they do, these charges will be filed as a separate case, held in criminal court, and handled by a criminal court judge.
Unfortunately, while domestic violence is always a crime, it’s also often a secret crime—one whose harm doesn’t always leave a mark. Hence, in many situations, the state lacks the necessary evidence to prosecute.
California Domestic Violence Resources
It’s important to understand that—even without a bruise or scar—domestic violence is never okay. California courts take these crimes very seriously, and if you or a loved one are currently experiencing abuse, it’s critical that you talk to law enforcement (as well as your family law attorney), to figure out the best course of action in your situation.
If you don’t know where to start, or simply need help, these online resources can assist you with the process:
These sites can help you find a shelter, retain a free or low-cost attorney, and walk you through the steps for things like filing for a restraining order.
In the meantime, if the danger is immediate, don’t wait, and call the police right away.
Domestic Violence Divorce Attorneys in California
If you are dealing with domestic violence in your marriage, the most important thing to do is to keep yourself—and your children—safe. The next step is to get out of the situation as quickly as that safety will allow.
If you have more questions about domestic violence in California, and how this might affect your divorce, we want to help. Call the Maples Family Law team at (209) 989-4425, or get in touch online, and together, we can figure out the next best step for you.
